The Art of Hypnotizing Your Husband: A Journey of Connection and Trust

Attempts in vain

Since the time I got into hypnosis in 2008, I have been trying to hypnotize my husband. When I start looking into his eyes, he will avert his eyes and start laughing loudly. On Feb 17^th 2024, we were sitting after lunch at the Hornbill festival. There was still time for the next presentation to start. I tried again to hypnotise him.

 He commented, “It is written in books that one should not try to hypnotize close relations.” I countered with, “That is only in the initial stages of learning. I am a well established hypnotist now. Why don’t you please trust me and let it happen?”

He then challenged me, "If you really want to hypnotise me, do that for 5 minutes and when I come out, I should feel that I had an afternoon nap of half hour." And I took his challenge!

About hypnosis

Hypnosis is a state of focused attention, heightened suggestibility, and deep relaxation. It involves bypassing the critical factor of the conscious mind to access the subconscious, where suggestions can be accepted more readily. While hypnosis is often associated with entertainment or therapy, it can also be a powerful tool for personal growth and relationship enhancement.

Hypnotizing someone, especially your spouse, can be an intriguing and fulfilling experience. It requires patience, understanding, and trust between partners.

The Power of Consent, Trust, and Rapport

Consent is paramount in any hypnotic session, especially when hypnotizing a loved one. Without genuine consent, the process can lead to discomfort and resistance.

Trust and rapport are foundational elements of effective hypnosis. Establishing a safe and comfortable environment allows the hypnotized individual to relax and open up to suggestions.

Meeting the Challenge

With determination and a desire to connect with my husband on a deeper level, I accepted the challenge. Drawing upon my understanding of hypnosis and the power of suggestion, I guided him into a state of deep relaxation and suggestibility. I gave the suggestion that he will go into a deep relaxing sleep for five minutes and then would wake up by himself, with a feeling that he had his usual afternoon nap for half hour.

Success and Connection

As the minutes passed, he entered a trance-like state, receptive to my gentle suggestions. It was so satisfying, fascinating experience to watch his face. I could sense him going into a deeply relaxed state, falling into a wonderful sleep! When he emerged from the hypnotic state, he felt refreshed as though he had enjoyed a half-hour nap in just five minutes. The success of the session not only demonstrated the power of hypnosis but also deepened our bond through shared experience and mutual trust.

Hypnotizing a loved one, particularly a reluctant spouse, requires patience, skill, and most importantly, consent. By fostering trust, open communication, and a willingness to explore new experiences together, couples can unlock the transformative potential of hypnosis to deepen their connection. 

Daily Reiki Self Healing – A Must For Every Reiki Practitioner

 

Garima (name changed) who learnt Reiki from me about 15 years back visited me recently. Though she told she is still into Reiki and had started to heal others on a daily basis, I couldn't sense that in her aura.

In pursuit of Reiki degree

She had gone to Bangalore for her graduation and since she wanted to go ahead with Reiki, she took her Reiki IIIA from a Reiki Master there. To my question whether she practices daily self healing, she told, " My Reiki Master who attuned me to Reiki IIIA told me that I am a very powerful healer now, so I have to just sit and think of the chakra points. There is no need to pass on the healing energy to all the points as I was doing earlier." That explained to me the situation.

Let’s check the energy level

I took out my pendulum and showed her that there was no energy movement in her chakras except one, and a very slight presence in another. Then I showed the pendulum movement on my chakra points (I do everyday healing in the morning and evening).

Saying that you don't have to do proper daily self healing is like, “You have been eating for so many years, and are very well built and strong now. From tomorrow, don't take regular food; take one tablet at each meal time."

Even a Reiki Grand Master need to do daily hands on self healing every single day. This is more crucial if one is healing others. This came clear after her statement," I take up only three clients a day and after each healing, I feel so nice and energetic." When we are healing others, the energy is entering our crown chakra and going down to the Heart chakra, and then flows through the hands to the client. If we have not done our self healing and thereby balanced our chakras, first the energy will go to those points in our body. That self healing and balancing was making her feel so nice and energetic.

Needless to say that the amount of energy going to the client will be much less than that which a Reiki channel with balanced chakras can provide. 

The Golden Truth

This is a very important lesson for all Reiki practitioners to remember. Daily self healing is crucial in maintaining a balanced energy system. It is not enough to simply rely on our attunements or past experiences to sustain us. Regular self healing practices help to clear any blockages in our chakras and keep our energy flowing smoothly. It is through this self care that we are able to be most effective in helping others to heal!