After I learned past life regression facilitation in 2008 and started doing regression for clients, it was clear to me that we decide the blue print of our life, choose our physical status, parents, place of birth etc., Major events in life are also decided upon. We make contract with other souls in that realm for them to come to our life at particular times to give us happy or sad experiences.
Finishing off karmic debts
Some souls decide to take up many painful experiences because they want to negate a lot of karmic debts in one life time. In their earthly existence there is always pain and suffering, when we don’t know the underlying truth, it is very unsettling to witness such a situation.
When clients come with problems/painful relationships, I try to hint that it was their decision to go through those experiences, but usually it doesn’t cut any ice. Somebody telling them so will not be sufficient for them to believe or trust it.
Moment of realisation
During regression sessions, some clients come to grasp this truth. Recently I had a client who experienced this. She saw her past life where there was pain and suffering. She went silent for some time, then I saw that expression on her face, which told me she is grasping some truth. Those are moments of satisfaction for me as somebody is getting the truth of life.
She asked me in utter disbelief, “But why would I choose pain for myself? It was I who chose that pain and suffering. Why would I do that?”
Why do you choose pain?
One aspect is to negate the karmic debts that were accumulated in different incarnations. Another aspect is that we take lives on Earth to go to the higher realms of experience and understanding. And whether we like it or not, it is only through adverse situations we realise and develop our strengths and qualities, which further our spiritual journey.